Blessings Times Two

Welcome to our little piece of the world. We are blessed with health, happiness, & families. We have been blessed twice by different birthfamilies. Each birthfamily was at a time in their life when they needed us & we needed them. We each have been able to bless the other. So this blog is primarily for our children's birthparents who blessed us with the most precious gift of being parents. Thank you for allowing us to be blessed with the precious gift of children.

Thursday, April 05, 2012

Autism & Epilepsy

In celebration of AUTISM awareness month: Studies have shown that as many as half of all kids with AUTISM have some sort of seizure disorder. It puzzles all sides of the medical field. Some w/ ASD have intractable epilepsy while others have only 2 seizures in their lifetime.---Dr. Sarah Spencer & epilepsyUSA


So let's chat about the two things in our house that cause chaos...no, they just stink...wait I have a better word for the two of them because together autism & epilepsy just suck...sorry, but I had to say it...if Hayden O-N-L-Y had one disability life would be oh so much easier...but he got handed one of the loaded decks of cards & unfortunately has BOTH!!
We have been working with Hayden's neurologist since he was 2yrs old...that's 4 years people to get his seizures under control/make him seizure free.  Hayden currently takes more seizure medications than most people do & should have some of horrible side effects from them...but he doesn't--thank the Lord!  Hayden has been on many different seizure medications (I've forgotten the number of combination of medications that Hayden has tried now), tried the ketogenic diet & is not a candidate for brain surgery.  However, a year ago Hayden was in the throws of the keto diet & not doing so well (spiking up to 200+ seizures in under a month) while today with a different combo of medications he is around 20 seizures a month...so that is progress.

Non-verbal Autism combined with epilepsy, is difficult because we have no idea when or if Hayden is going to have a seizure, how he feels in the post-itcal (after a seizure) phase, nor if all the medications he takes have any of the weird side effects that we can't see (feel funny in the head/upset stomach/etc).
Autism affects all parts of our daily life from sleeping, eating, school & work routines.  When you add another disability on top, it does make life a bit more complicated.  We take each day as it comes.  We are blessed by the grace & love of the Lord...it is the only way we make it through, one day at time sweet Jesus.

One of my more favorite pictures lately...occasionally, we capture both eye contact & a SMILE.
I am just Hayden's mom (lol--doesn't that sound funny??) who has learned a lot about our son's medical conditions &  whose son has a medical file thicker than someone five times older than he, but autism & epilepsy are part of his puzzling medical needs... & as Hayden's mom I know when he sick, when he needs to be seen, when something isn't right.  However, I will say that thankfully, with my chosen profession I already knew some about seizures, & now I have learned a heck of a lot more but I am NOT a professional in the field, LOL....I leave the professional part of caring for Hayden to his doctors whom I have grown to trust & respect the heck out of!!

Autism & Epilepsy...I don't like these parts of the puzzle.

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